Tuesday, May 22, 2012

To Truly Love Someone...


Scripture:
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
(NIV)

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Devotional:

What is love?  Often times we think of love as being just an emotion.  Couples become infatuated with one another.  They “feel” love toward each other, soon a friendship and possibly a romance blossoms.  The problem is that this so called love doesn’t last.  After going through the “honeymoon” stage people think that they “fall” out of love.  They no longer love one another.  Soon after the relationship fades and ends.

How does a relationship last?  What does it mean to “really” love someone?  We read 1 Corinthians and we are given several virtues of love.  A true and pure example of love is God’s love for us.  He came to earth as human; Jesus Christ was born and lived a sinless life.  Jesus showed us and taught us about God and the kingdom of heaven.  He ultimately suffered and died for our sins.  Through Him we have a means to enter the kingdom of heaven.  Jesus’ love is selfless.  He gave everything just so that we can be with Him.  

Love does not look to itself.  Love does nothing to harm or hurt someone else.  A relationship that is built upon the foundations of love will survive and even thrive past the “honeymoon” stage.  When you really love someone you will put them before yourself, look how Jesus treated people around Him.  When you really love someone you will uplift them and not strike out against them.  When you love someone you will care and nurture them.  Loving someone means you think of them first, what are their needs and wants.  By spending more energy and effort in these things your relationship will only grow stronger.  It is not easy.  There are times when we will fail.  But if all members of the relationship truly strive for these things then forgiveness, compassion, and mercy are there when needed.  The relationship will grow and become strong.  Is your relationship with Jesus in the “honeymoon” stage?  Have you moved beyond it into a meaningful relationship with Christ?  What about your friends and family?  Are you self seeking or looking to others first?  Your priorities will help show what you think love is.  Are your priorities inward or outward?  Ask God to show you His love and help you to love others as He loves you…

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